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Monday, April 03, 2006

A star close to the earth


Today, had been to this place I had never been to in Downtown.
A few of us..the excutive committee members had an informal meeting with none other than the vice president of a multinational drug company!

It was an amazing experience. At a time when it is hard to sit through an hour class of Statistics, we were wondering how it will be to spend time with one big shot!

At the end of it, we looked at our watches to find that it was dinner that lasted for 3 straight hours. Filled with sharing experiences, smiling, laughing, eating and them drinking beer.

Incl him there were three guys and I being the only girl.

First, when we reached the restaurant, I was totally surprised to see him clad in jeans.

Secondly, when we reached inside..he amongst the other three guys was the one who pulled the chair out for the girl! Believe me, the guys were equally surprised at this.

No matter the age, chivalrousness is a quality in a guy thats sexy!

Later, he started asking us,how many years we had for our graduation. To which he said "Do not rush through it". Being graduate student is good!

I said "The grass is greener on the other side"
Later, I quipped "So whats good about being a student"

He said "Your dress! You can wear jeans. You can work wearign shorts.Thats good thing! I hate wearing that damn suit and working in the lab(when it is required)."

He also said that just to make fun of that formal attire, he wore totally non sensical Tie's that had Santa claus, a cat, Jingle bell etc on his tie!!!

Believe me you blush a million times, when a big shot such as him gives you a compliment that your smile can light up an entire room! I remember Nandya giving me this compliment a long time back!!

We decided to order some drinks and he and the other guys chilled out over a pitcher.

While me, the fool decided to try Irish coffee..not knowing what it was but still had heard a long time back from a friend that "Irish coffee, contains some coffeee, some whipped cream, some cinnamom, and some alcohol that gets evaporated after you flame them"

I ordered it.

The whipped cream made it even more tempting. The first sip and I went "Whack..thu"..like actually!
Still, I continued sipping through the damn thing just coz it would have been rude to not drink it.

I added 5 packets of sugar to it. Still the damn thing was bitter.

He saw it and said "Dont you like it?" I pretended to say that I liked it just that it was bitter.

He said "It is Irish coffee, alcohol and coffee.What do you expect"
I was like "Whoppsssssssss!! I narrated my view of an Irish coffee. They smiled and said "Irish coffee has alcohol in it and it does not evaporate and it stays"

I finally stopped sipping it and ordered a pepsi!!

After ordering appetizers, I already felt full and decided to skip the main course and ordered the dessert which was "Warm Caramel Bread Pudding"

It was yummiee and he said so too!! Before starting to eat, I just said "Would you like to dig in"? of course, I did not expect him to say yes but just coz he said it looked good, I asked it out of curiosity.

He said no.

The dinner was over and we were casually chatting.

He mentioned that he weighed 250 lbs as a high school kid and lost 70 lbs later. But it does not show on his body coz he exercises everyday. Believe me he looked handsome!

Totally amazing was when he mentioned his writing skills sucked.

We thought he was just being candid but then he totally blew us off when he said"Now, I want to try that dessert of yours"
:O
:O
I said "I am sure you are kidding again. I have eaten from it"

He said "So what. We all breathe the same air"

Never in my life has someone had that piece of dessert from my plate. I have always cut the slice into two and then eaten it.

Thats what I call "feet being firmly ground"

How many times, have you found someone sharing a piece of morsel from your plate? Although I have done it often times with my friends, but never with a person of his caliber"

I could not control from saying that "Your modesty speaks for itself"

To which, he said something that would echo on my mind forever
"When you are there at the top, you need to be modest, coz its really lonely up there"

"You need friends from different backgrounds, different nationalities, you got to remain friends with your high school friends. You need to establish network without severing of ties from the past"


This one evening made me reflect on so many things. That made me change so many of my perceptions. And I wished I would have known a lot more about that person!

In the end "Its not the altitude, its the attitude that maketh man"




Comments on "A star close to the earth"

 

Anonymous Anonymous said ... (11:23 PM) : 

hey RoS,
Luved this article...I must say, that it did give something to think about for the nite. Qualifies for being on of ur finest.
A

 

Blogger Rays Of Sun said ... (12:02 AM) : 

#Ashwin,
Let me know what you thought about it:) Thanks for that..It was such a nice time spent that the first things I HAD to do was to write it!!

 

Blogger t said ... (12:09 AM) : 

sacchi :) when u meet such people u feel so humble :)
and they inspire you no end!

 

Blogger Rays Of Sun said ... (12:13 AM) : 

#Trups,
Absolutely..they serve as greatest inspiration where people are so proud! I decided to respond to comments immediately..naheeto I keep procrastinating:O

 

Blogger The Girl Who Sold The World said ... (2:16 AM) : 

Wow...pretty deep. Yeah, it's attitude which makes all the difference. I remember this particular school assembly where our principal was talking about it and he showed us a great poster. The words were..."ATTITUDE: it's upto you." Heh, we all loved it. :D
By the way, how was that Warm Caramel Bread Pudding? Sounds good...mmmmm.

 

Blogger Abhishek Upadhyay said ... (3:51 AM) : 

That was really very beautiful post. There are very few guys like him. I remember when I had joined my previous company as a sales head, I was the youngest in my company to have that post( I am 24 now). I used to fear meeting big shots of companies like Hyundai, SonoKoyo, Maruti, Honda etc.
Once I met Mr R Gupta, CEO of M&M Crafts. He was totally down to earth man. He asked my experience working I manufacturing Industry and took me for Lunch with him in his Cafeteria. There we discussed in detail the future of cutting tool industry in India. While talking to him I felt as if I am talking to a friend of my age rather than a CEO of a company. Same goes with the CEO of My Current company Mr Arijay Chaudhari. His books on Trade reforms, WTO and GATT are taught in Harvard, Stanford and other big B Schools. But when you will talk to him, he never gives the impression that he is a big shot. I was amazed to see him enjoying Chat and Chole Bhature on the street side shop with me in Chandni Chowk in Delhi. I thought that guys like him give too much air to the hygiene stuff…but he told that he loved to freak out sometimes…

There are people like these how teach a person to be modest. These people know how to keep head in sky and feet on ground.

 

Anonymous Anonymous said ... (6:38 AM) : 

And that is the reason why the phrase 'Order new when alone' is doing rounds at formal/interview dinner tables. Anyways, from the look of it... your's was neither formal nor interview... why were you there exactly? And then you complain about being a grad student... see it can be fun!!

Good to see you in a cherry mood.

 

Blogger Sudeep said ... (8:30 AM) : 

When you are there at the top, you need to be modest, coz its really lonely up there
wow... tht was an awesome line

a nice exp u had..

chivalrousness is a quality in a guy thats sexy
once i had pulled a chair for a gal, but pulled it too much n she fell flat on the floor.. so now no chivalry only rivalry
:P

 

Blogger Sayesha said ... (9:07 AM) : 

//When you are there at the top, you need to be modest, coz its really lonely up there

Wah! Kya baat bola re! :)

 

Blogger R said ... (9:24 AM) : 

I remember totally relishing Irish coffee when I first had it two years back..

 

Blogger s said ... (12:58 PM) : 

reminds me of joey ...

"I can order her fries if she wants but she CANT have my fries"

people of calibre are still people. :)

 

Blogger Thanu said ... (1:03 PM) : 

It is really nice to see big shots being Modest. But I think most of them are modest, its is just a myth that they are uptight.

 

Blogger Rays Of Sun said ... (4:11 PM) : 

#The Girl,
//..."ATTITUDE: it's upto you." Heh, we all loved it./
Waah..mast baat kahee:)
Check the figure for warm caramel pudding!
http://static.flickr.com/6/5764081_82275fe1a4.jpg

#Abhishek,
Wah! You wrote an entire post:O
24 now?? How old were you then???
You provided an uself insight..thanks for that:) very nice!

#Prad,
//'Order new when alone'//
Please shed some light on that..I haven’t heard that phrase before..:O
Are he was a seminar speaker today to address the student chapter.
Am the Treasurer of that committee, hence the “informal”meeting.
Today, when we met formally..he impressed me even more.
I took him on the college tour and just had a formal clothes on without a jacket. He was Gentleman enuf to offer me his coat!!!!!! Totally adorable!

#Sudeep,
Rotf!!
Chair kheecho lekin itna bhi nahi…:))
#Sash,
Thank u..:))
Thoda gyaan baata:P

#Rohit,
Eww…me totally dint like it:P

#Viks,
Hahahhaa..modet insane ko bolna padta hai ki who modest hai!
See the evolution of definition differs with each era:P

#Wolf,
A formal welcome to you…:P
I have no clue..I had heard that when I was in India. Maybe a friend made a fool out of me:O

#Shailen
Even without checking your blog..I knew this was you:P
Har time ROSS ko yaad karne wala aaj Joey ko yaad kar raha hai:P
Sahi bola pehlee baar;)

#Thanu,
But I have met many people who reinforce my opinion that its just not a myth!

 

Blogger Aseem said ... (6:42 PM) : 

I stumbled across this blog - it was a good read and a nice laugh :)

 

Blogger Shreyas said ... (12:08 AM) : 

u seem besotted by this big shot... well written but i felt a li biased article.. wud have luved to see some neutral tones to it too...

 

Blogger Rays Of Sun said ... (12:35 AM) : 

#Aseem,
Welcome:) and glad it bought a chuckle across your face:)

#Wolf,
hehehehe,...even I have never heard the names of those:D

#Shreyas,
Not besotted..but amazed defintely..
Well, you might find it biased..but the thing is, in three hours of meeting..this is all you can know about a person (who BTW is a dipolmatic VP of a big company)

 

Blogger Jagan said ... (5:25 AM) : 

I have had irish coffee in the local coffee shops here and I doubt if they add alcohol to it ...

 

Anonymous Anonymous said ... (6:17 AM) : 

i agree with your attitude conclusion after all it is rightly said by someone (I dont remember who):

"Attitude is most important, than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures or successes. We cannot change the past and we cannot change the inevitable but we can change our attitude. Life is only 10% of what happens to us and 90% of how we react to it."

Enjoy...

 

Anonymous Anonymous said ... (3:38 PM) : 

sahi pehchana ...
aur yeh laga sixer aur ROSs fir champion!!!!

 

Anonymous Anonymous said ... (9:16 PM) : 

Sorry for the misinformation. My bad!!!!

 

Blogger Rays Of Sun said ... (9:28 PM) : 

#Jags,
Hmmm...maybe they dont..read the Guy who told...'s comment:D

#Anon,
WOW..nicely said:) Impressive!
//Life is only 10% of what happens to us and 90% of how we react to it."//
Could not say it better:)

#Shailen,
Hehehhe..mein aur kuch nahi bolegee:P

#The guy who........
:O:O Man! its like 6 years, and you still remember that???
Man..you rock:D
I so dint expect you to read this post and above all to remember what was said for something so long time back:)
CHalo koi baat nahi..Uloo:P

 

Blogger RP said ... (8:34 AM) : 

Incl him there were three guys and I being the only girl.
must have been interesting. :-)

No matter the age, chivalrousness is a quality in a guy thats sexy!
oh!

Believe me you blush a million times, when a big shot such as him gives you a compliment that your smile can light up an entire room!
**rp wondering where this is leading too**

Before starting to eat, I just said "Would you like to dig in"? of course, I did not expect him to say yes
**rp is getting an idea on where it is leading**

Believe me he looked handsome!
Aaahhhh.... there it goes....
**rp is convinced on where it is leading**

Hope ye had a good time after! ;-)

 

Blogger Rays Of Sun said ... (10:43 AM) : 

#Ravi,
Wow..I had a similar perception abouut Long Island Ice Tea as well:D
Although, thankfully I dont like ice tea therefore never ordered it:P

#RP,
Oh! dude...the guy is double my age:D
Pervert RP:P

 

Blogger Layfield said ... (1:59 PM) : 

Wow, that's really inspirational. I'm going to be like that.

 

Blogger Dalicia said ... (11:56 PM) : 

what a nice experience for you. if all he said was true, i have accomplished a lot! :)

 

Blogger Shreyas said ... (1:45 AM) : 

explanation accepted... but i still maintain u seem a tad besotted wit him :P

 

Blogger Abhishek Upadhyay said ... (6:14 AM) : 

Hey I forgot that my comment went to long...I not my comments have capabilities to cure insomnia.

As for your question...I was 23 at that time.

If you get time...please dont visit my blog...

 

Anonymous Anonymous said ... (9:48 AM) : 

Hi ROS,
I like the new layout of your blog....looks great! Keep up the good work...and whats new with you?

 

Anonymous Anonymous said ... (1:49 PM) : 

The old layout was better. new layout is hard on my eyes.

 

Blogger The Girl Who Sold The World said ... (6:29 AM) : 

Wah ROS, naya layout, naye colours, naya style, badhiya hai! :P

"Awesome, you rock!!!"? Muahahaha...mujhe toh pata hai! I'm oh-so-rocking. :P:D

 

Blogger RP said ... (7:46 AM) : 

RoS,
Oh! dude...the guy is double my age:D
Oh! So age was the only hurdle was it? Otherwise wut might hve happened? mmmm.... **rp keeping a note of this in his mind**

Pervert RP:P
Agreed my lord. I always believe only an bigger thief can pronounce verdict on other theives. ;-)

 

Blogger Sayesha said ... (12:43 AM) : 

Baby template kab change kiya?

 

Blogger Sayesha said ... (12:44 AM) : 

Aur is 'earn extra money' wale ko delete maar! Mere blog par bhi aata rehta hai! :@

 

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