So the question is..
When someone hasn't been nice to you, is it worthwhile to pay the person back in his/her own coin? Is it worth wasting your time on someone who is not reasonable in making judgments? Can you be a fountain of forgiveness all the time? When do you say " I can't take it anymore"? Dont worry friends, nothing like that has happened to me on a day like today. Its just a general thought that creeped over a period of time. On a better note: Ms. Jeenu "WISH YOU MANY HAPPY RETURNS OF THE DAY" Hope the Ph.D journey gets better and sweeter. Enjoy your day today and do comment:) |
some words scribbled by Rays Of Sun at 12:34 AM
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Anonymous said ... (5:47 AM) :
So you were saying....Oh prady! Dont accuse me of infringment:p
I wrote it at spur of the moment. Any relevance to any person's blog is completely coincidental:)
Another question..how should you react, if the person in question has touched the raw nerve?
Ohh..Were u refering to the "Second Chance"blog??
Ros..
Snow khatam hogayi kya??? gusse me ho??
Pay nothing when you feel unworthy, is all what i can say..
There's a great difference in what we think we should do and what we actually do, coming to think of it.
Me 8th I think ;)
I aint a fountain of forgiveness .. dunno abt others :D
ROSie...well if you ask us scorps...nothing like a cold calculated revenge, kyun Jeenu?
(Just joking!)
vi
hey girlie
thanks for u r wishes :D
i feel very special now ;)
now i will read the blog fully
cheers
jeenu
haan Vi
revenge is better when served cold..hehehehehe
cheers
jeenu
I beleive in- As you sow so shall you reap.
I also beleive in- Tit for Tat.
So if I get attitude or $#it from someone for no reason whatsoever I make sure I give it back to them.
Great topic ROS. Hmm...I ask myself these questions too. I don't know ROS. I think it is good to let people know what they have done, but it need not be in an aggressive way. Whatever's done is done. Good sense says we should learn what we have to learn and move on. But when we have been wronged, it is sometimes hard to let go. And sometimes, that relationship is broken forever because of that. Doing tit-for-tat beckons. And it could make the person realize what they have done, but it could also make us feel bad about the person we are? Plus, perhaps 'paying them back' might not help if all that person needed was to irk us. Even hate is attention. Ignoring a wrongdoer might be a better option in some cases. Some people are not worth investing our time and emotions on.
#Rik!
Nahi re, snow is melting..
Hmm..sometimes you give out things for free, don't you?
#Rinku!
I think U cannot forgive unless you forget..coz then even though you say that you have excused the person of his/her doings, the seed has been sown.
I agree, no person can be fooled twice:)
#Czar!
I can tell you, At Sayesha's bar people consider it their pride do do the "me first"act:)
BTW, I might have told you this, but your sis has forgotten the tune and needed somebody to sing that back to her:)
#Z,
Wouldnt it just be great to do what we actually think?:)
#Aria,
yeah! So are you happy being that way?Just out of curiosity.
#Prady,
Thanks bro:) I know you wouldn't..Trust you for that.
For the second part, I think you know what I talked about:)
#Vi,
Wow..ROS se..Ray and now ROSie..wow me likey:)
Cold calculated..never been that way:(
#Birthday Baby, Jeenu!
Cold revenge...hmmm...I thought only beer tastes good when served cold:)
#Kroops!
Welcome to my "Life"
BTW, what if you have got something for no fault of yours and the person has done something purely on basis of his perception?
#Hershey,
Thats what I say, how can you tell someone when he has no nerve to understand, has no ability to listen and lacks sound judgement?
You eventually let go, but between holding on and letting go, there is this phase, thats kinda shaky:)
Yeah! time to switch on the "Ignore mode":))
You are right. Those are some trying moments actually. Can be quite frustrating!
Tit for tat :)
Jaise to taisa :)
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nice blog girl..kaiko...sochti hai itna...usually once bitten twice shy...bas life chalta rehta hain...itna sochne ka nahin...treat a person as u would like to be treated...and life is much better...if u think u should have been forgiven..then forgive him as well...simple nahin :)))
Hmmm...Not exactly,but yes, if I can feel proud of it.
#Hershey!
U know what, I have decided.."If you choose to ignore, nothing bothers"
#Bhole,
Hmm..seekh rahee hoon hum!
#Viks,
I know this is straight from your email to me..but hey, its my property:p and am sure you are quite broad minded and wont make a hue and cry over this:)
I wanted to creditofy you on the blog but laga will write to you instead:) Hope u are chillaxed about it!
#Nandu!
Kayko sochtee hai? Well brain pe kaam kartee hoon..its my bread n butter..hafta to use that lil organ..and as far as treating someone is concerned, well..me not saying anything..
P.S- why are people getting an impression that its a HIM? why cant it be a SHE?($$$Devil's lauf$$$)
Hey Viks
I know you duffer...:p
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