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Thursday, March 30, 2006

Rimzhim gire saawan....

I know am on a roll..
For days my blogs remain non-updated but then not everyday is nice to blog on!
So today, me just enjoyed one of the most nicest days in a long long time!
FInally the rainfall breath some life in my parched life.
Maybe its the effect of the weather or the new year (Today is Gudi Padwa..Marathi New year) or just ME!
So I thought, let me just cherish this moment, for as long as it lasts:)
Me and my friend went to the cafeteria for lunch. Thats when it struck me that I have missed going out for so long. Missed so many beautiful days. Hated rainfall coz it drenched my clothes.
I just wanted to let it go. Both of us, walked in the city for a long time, getting soaked in the pristine water thats cleansing my system!!
It just reminded me of "Marine Drive". Like it goes
"Kaale kaale badal jab bhi chayenge, woh din pyaare pyaare yaad aayenge"
I feel am a child again.
And I walked around the city..
And I got wet in the rainfall..
And I went outside..
And I want to eat samosas and
And I want to have one cutting chai
And I want to be on the beach
And the Mausam is mastana, the rasta is anjana, jaane kab kis mod pe ban jaaye koi afsana!!!
And like this song, which I listen to in this mausam:)
Raindrops keep falling on my head
but that doesn't mean my eyes will soon be turning red
Crying's not for me,
cause I'm never gonna stop the rain by complaining
because I'm free
nothing's worrying me
It won't be long till happiness steps up to greet me


Wednesday, March 29, 2006

3 countries and 4 time zones yet so close


For the info, read
this recent post from Sayesha.

I am sure, I DO NOT have the patience to match up with Sayesha in terms of this longest post in the history of blogger:)

She has done a wonderful job on giving an ode to one of our coolest pals..
Vikram

A very Happy birthday to you friend:)

As Sash (Singaporean angel) says..Virdi (Chennai lad) , ROS (Omaha gal), Viks (Typical banglorean and LA lad) are the 4 elements of Chatur Chaar (CC)

She has done an excellent work at writing the origin of the CC and also for the idea of sending a gift for Vikram.
Details plz refer Sayeshaz;)

However, this is my part of the story. These are few of the moments at Chatur chaar:)

In the beginning, when just me and Sayesha were friends and Vikram and I used to exchange emails seperately.

Suddenly, I was having this convo with Viks and Sayesha parallely when both of them pissed me off by saying something (as always):P

So this is what Sash says:

From: Raysofsun S Mailed-By: gmail.com

To: Sayesha
sayeshaz@gmail.com

Ja mujhe na ab yaad aa tu..
udhar vik ke saath bhi jhagda ho raha hai

From: Sayesha Mailed-By: gmail.com

To: Raysofsun S

Achha tabhi mujhe ignore kiya?? Usko kitne dinon se jaanti hai? Mujhe kitne dinon se jaanti hai?? I'm sure 0.5 days more?

Dost dost na raha... pyaar pyaar na rahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa......................

From: Sayesha sayeshaz@gmail.com

To: Raysofsun S

Arreeeee... baap re... ab tum dono teaming up against me?? Woh dimaag wala comment?? Arre yaar... I am sure he knows I was kidding.... bahut naatak karta hai yeah Karnataka

From: Raysofsun S Mailed-By: gmail.com

To: Sayesha

He says, we should conference. Tera yahoo id kya hai??

So this is how me , sayesha and vikram met:)

Until now, I had no interaction with Virdi whatsoever. I used to silently read his blogs about "Girls and Freindship", "Girls and Anger" and all girl gyaans. Based on his comments on Sayeshaz every single post by saying "A spit infested with virus on you", he really intimidated me. Until the time he posted a comment on one of my posts.

Then one fine day, we both exchanging emails and well on the first day itself, Virdi called me a "Khadoos ki aatma"

But, then all I knew was..he is helluva of a straighforward guy and totally adorable!

Somehow, we all started talking and exchanging emails. Right now, I was browsing through the 1395 emails that we have exchanged so far!! and dont know how exactly all the four of us got together!

I think thats the essence of friendship. You never can tell when you got close. Right now the chatur chaar is oxygen, air, eath and water. Totally essential for survival in this world that can drive anyone insane:)

Everyday, after I get back home from work, its heartening to see an email that goes like this!


From: Sayesha
Mailed-By: gmail.com
To: Bhavdeep Virdee
Cc: Vikram Kulkarni , Raysofsun S
Date: Dec 15, 2005 6:25 PM


Subject: Salaam Namaste


Salaam Namaste my dear listeners! This is your RJ live from Singapore!Good morning LA, good morning Omaha, good morning sleepy Madras...I'm back today, after a crazy crazy day at work, with four majormeetings! Thak gaye yaar! Lekin aaj Friday hai (at least for Popo andme) wooohooooooooooooooo! :D

I miss you guys today... wish we could all hang out somewhere man...

Sash

And sometimes, emails such as this:

From: Sayesha Mailed-By: gmail.comTo: Bhavdeep Virdee Cc: Vikram Kulkarni , Raysofsun S Date: Dec 15, 2005 6:27 PM

Viks tera toh har cheez ke saath beer ka hi combo hota hai! Apni shaadi ke mandap par baithkar beer piyega aur bolega shaadi aur beer,ultimate combo!

Arre naatak company kahan gayi aaj?? ROS?? O ROS! Kiththe hai baby? :)

And one fine day, a yawning Virdi will shoot an email saying

good morning amreeka... good maarning inga minga singa pore... why are we always pulling each others legs??? cant we just talk some sense sometimes??


From: Raysofsun S
Subject: Re: Koi hai??

I am tired of talking sense, analysing people and discussing science!

And one some of the days when things just dont look bright..an utter TP email chat between Virdi and Viks is enuf to bring a grin on face!

ok if this cheers you up..

an important CIA conversation between Agent Vikram and Agent Virdi :

Here me is Vikram!

Bhavdeep: oye hero
whats up/??
me: bol re...
kuch nahi re
Bhavdeep: bus hi bolna tha
now back to work
khi khi khi
selvar mani
Bhavdeep: she had no one but u to talk to Khi Khi Khi Khi Khi Khi
yehich bola main
operation narth
style kampleet sauth
me: style south.. operation complete north... khi khi khi
hehehe
mast hai bey
Bhavdeep: sarkaar yeh ek chokra hai. isko kuch kaam pe lagao. aapka toh bahut jaan pehchaan hai film industry mein.
me: hehe.. mein kisike kaam mein dakhal nahi deta
khi khi khi
Bhavdeep: doosron kekaam mein main dakhal andazi nahi karta
me: yehich bola mein isko
kya bola main!!
yehich bola main

Bhavdeep: olympic mein gold medel nkya bola thaa??

me: wolympic not olympic.. hehe

Bhavdeep: swamiji aap aabhi hare raama hare krishna karo. bahut jaldi mulakaat hone wala hai me: rashid.. isko clean bowled kar do.. direct heart mein maro ya brain mein sarkaar ko itna con­ces­sion dena mangta

Bhavdeep: and tum aabhi dubai jao aur wahan sand ka gaddha khood ke us mein chup jao me: swamiji tumhara position safe hai full volume daalke hare rama hare krishna gao bohot jaldi meeting hone waali hai

Bhavdeep: coming to the point. kidhar maarna isko?? isko bahar leke jao. yehan mat maaro. rashid.. isko clean bowled kar do.. direct heart mein maro ya brain mein. sarkaar ko itna con­ces­sion dena mangta. (THIS IS THE COMPLETE DIALOG)

jobless saaale

me: aapki baaton mein aaya.. mera greastessht mishtake

Bhavdeep: aapki baaton mein aaya.. mera greastessht mish­take"then he hits his hand on his head"


From: Sayesha
To: Raysofsun S
Cc: Bhavdeep Virdee , Vikram Kulkarni
Date: Mar 26, 2006 7:16 PM
Subject: Re: Ullus
Went to my favourite Cambodianrestaurant... yaar non-Indian vegetarian khana bhi itna tasty ho saktahai pata hi nahin tha! :P

Kal I watched Virasat. Wept 100 ml. Then did assignment


From: Raysofsun S

To: Sayesha
Cc: Bhavdeep Virdee , Vikram Kulkarni
Date: Mar 26, 2006 7:19 PM
Subject: Re: Ullus
HAhahhaa I read it as non-vegeterian indian khana itna tasti ho skata hai kya:O
and i was like...whoops!! maine suna hai desi non veg is tasty and yeh ladki kya bol rahee hai!
100 ml?? wht kind of figure is that:P


From: Sayesha
To: Raysofsun S
Cc: Bhavdeep Virdee , Vikram Kulkarni
Date: Mar 26, 2006 7:24 PM
Subject: Re: Ullus
100 ml aansu re... matlab agar saare aansu collect karke measuring cylinder mein daala hota toh lower meniscus 100 ml ko touch karta.Offo! :)

Overall, the four discuss everything about their lives! And whenever I read these emails, its sure to crack me up! Just like now as am typing this!

Bollywood, work, bosses, colleagues, clothes, food, vacations,music.

We know when Sayesha wakes up in S'pore, when she goes to the gym. When Vikram must be in a bar and when ROS should not be disturbed and when we need a hug:)

We are all poles apart as far as personality is concerned.

Sayesha:-the creative, talented and enthusiastic girl who is someone we all can relate to and would think as someone whom we have known for a long time!

Virdi: The senti and funny dude! with the most sexy voice. One guy who has heard me cry on the phone despite being seperated by 7 oceans.

Vikram: The Birthday boy

Few pointers about him:

  • Tall and good looking chap
  • Hilarious to the core
  • Who can say a lot of things but can never hurt anyone intentionally
  • Who not only likes music (esp Pink Floyd) but who also knows trivia that none else would probably know
  • Who according to me can practically survive on beer and vodka
  • Who cannot bear the girly nakhras but one who can totally understand you if you are down
  • And more than this which very few people on blogger would know

ROS: Thats me. Well, like a book that you think you have read but still cannot understand. One whom they love teasing and manaoing.

In all the Chatur chaar club is a health club:

Where you,

  • Laugh together..
  • Cry together
  • Play pranks
  • Exercise your brain cells to come up with one liners to pull each others legs
  • Lift each others spirits

Sometimes, people whom you haven't met and people who are seperated by miles bring joy unlimited!

So with this, we wish Vikram a happy 25th birthday! and am sure he is as happy as we are for all the cards that he got!

For the one, who did not believe in birthdays this is what he feels

GUYS!!,

I just got home and found a FedEx package lying next to my front door. I saw the sender is from Nebraska. I knew you guys were upto something. I feel so embarresed now. I reminded all of you of my birthday and you guys were forced to send something out to me. Sheesh.

Anyway, THANK YOU ALL for the wonderful handwritten messages. I'm touched to say the least. Noone has ever done anything like this before. All my friends don't care about my birthday and so do I about their birthdays. You guys made me feel so important. I have never felt like that before.

You guys are the best. Thank you all from the bottom of my heart. Love you guys. :)

Sayesha - My brain tells me it was your idea. Correct me if I'm wrong. I don't wish to take away the credit from Virdibhai or ROS.

Virdi Bhai - Arrey yaar, thank you for your letter in Hindi yaar. It's been close to ten years I read Hindi. Dil ko choo liya re. :)

ROS - What can I say? Born to irritate me? Hahaha. Bring it on babe. Apun always there to get angry at your "girly" comments. All that aside, thanks a lot re. Noone ever made me feel so special in life before. It feels a little weird but I like the feeling. I want to ride on the feeling even after my birthday is over. Hahaha :)

Anyway, you guys are too good re. I'll probably copy - paste this on my blog along with the pictures of all the wonderful, heart warming messages you sent.

Maan, I can't believe I got so freakin' emotional. Need to grab a beer. FAST.

Thanks again guys. You rock.

And so do you, dude!!

Like I always say, sometimes you dont believe in things until they happen to you:)

Monday, March 27, 2006

Making hell out of nothing at all

There was this story amongst million stories that my mom used to narrate while I was really really small.
So there was this story about a rabbit which I used to hear from her. I dont know the whole narration but just write lines that probably is related to my life.
It turns out that a rabbit is a very coy animal by nature. A very shy and easily scared thing. So when a leaf fell on its back, the animal thinks that all hell broke loose.
It starts telling every animal it meets on the way that a thunderstorm is on its way!
It gets overwhelmed and in due course puts all the other animals under great stress.
I think I am like that rabbit now!
Not scared or shy but easily overwhelmed.
We all live in a stressful world but each one is equipped with a defense mechanism. I on the other hand revert into my shell.
And the most funny part is, at the crack of dawn when I think back..it seems worthless to have fret over something!
Like Sayesha's post sometime back where she mentions how she starts thinkin of that voicemail when she is in a Statistics class. Similarly, today when I was sitting in my statistics class, I got atleast 10 missed calls from my university. We get one common number (for privacy purposes), so was unable to tell who must have called.
There was a voicemail too.
I lost all my calm and kept thinking who must've called and why!
Maybe I messed up in lab. Maybe my grant has been reviewed and I have been awarded the fellowship, maybe someone in my university found out about my blog! and all sorts of things that I dont want to narrate here.
I just excused myself from the class to go listen to that voicemail and was relived that it was from a friend who needed a ride home:O
While driving back, I was wondering why exactly do such things bother me??
Some times things dont deserve a second thought! still I drain my energy over those insignificant aspects in life.
Things should probably not be so important that it makes you lose your balance in life!
This rabbit needs to know that a leaf is a leaf. And its weight is not too much for it to handle!

Thursday, March 23, 2006

And thats the way it is

OK! had a messed up day??
Why not make somebody else's day??
Sometimes, you dont have it your way
And you cannot have it that way
Ignore them if you may
You got to hang on, either way
See the ray, when things look grey!!

Monday, March 20, 2006

My Seven

Omaha is snowed down so forced to being home!
Ah! how different it is to be home on a monday..and probably tuesday also.
Am a little jumpy and a restless cancerian who sometimes wants what she can't get. So right now my lab beckons me:O
Meanwhile, I was tagged by Rustic-Rhapsody long long time back. This is the first time the marvellous writer has tagged me to write my seven.
7 things I wanna do before I die ..
  • Get my PhD - Have spent the youth of my life in the lab and surely this is one goal for which I have given up a lot of things that I would not have otherwise.
  • Spend time with my family..meaning really spend some quality time.
  • Learn ball room dancing
  • To really see India..the bakwaters of Kerala, the Taj Mahal, Darjeeling, Assam
  • To learn a musical instrument
  • Relax..Dont' ask me what it is. But I really think someday I want to just relax! Eat the food that someone else cooks for me, get a head massage:D
  • To get married and have a cute little child..After all thats one thing everyone wants..I am no different:)

7 things I don’t enjoy doing ..

  • Cleaning up the mess that someone else makes
  • Waiting for someone..It is irritating to wait people who are not punctual or who don't respect someone else's time.
  • Talking to someone when I don't feel interested
  • Passing caustic remarks- I dont like doing it and hate if someone does that
  • Cutting vegetables:- As much as I love cooking, I totally dislike cutting veggies.Dont know why!
  • Thinking and making calculated moves before doing something that I really want to do. Kills the spontaineity.
  • Women who wear excessive perfumes as if they have showered with a bucketful of perfume.

7 things I say most often ..

  • Paka mat (Don't bore me)
  • Whatever
  • Oh God
  • Well...
  • How stupid
  • Hang on
  • Hi!

7 books I like:

  • Atlas Shrugged
  • The Alchemist
  • Wuthering Heights
  • Mill on the floss
  • Tuesdays with Morrie
  • Batatyachee chawl (Its a marathi book by PL Deshpande)
  • Different kinds of recipe books

7 english movies I can watch again and again ....

  • Serendipity ( There's some feel good factor about that movie)
  • Breakfast at Tiffany's
  • Sleepless in Seattle
  • Crash
  • Three to Tango
  • Notting Hill
  • You've got mail

7 hindi movies I can watch again and again ....

  • Dil Chahta Hai
  • Jo jeeta wohi sikandar
  • Golmaal
  • Qayamat se Qayamat Tak
  • Angoor
  • Baaton Baaton Mein
  • Dilwale dulhaniya le jaayenge

7 things that attracted me to blogging ..

Well..I would pass this one..Nothing really! just started writing one fine day! Now that I have started, there are few things I like doing. I think blogging is an interesting medium!! I have discovered so many things and came across so many nice people that I would not have otherwise!

  • To maintain a journal of small but significant things
  • To vent off
  • To share my happiness
  • To connect to people who have the slightest interest in my life!
  • For the photography such as Talwar
  • For the travelogue such as Hopscotch
  • For the food such as Onehotstove

Where else can you get everything at the click of a mouse!

7 pieces of music I enjoy .. ..

Really picky about music. Nothing particular but can't listen to everything that plays on the radio. Dislike heavy metal. Its soft rock for me. More than the band, I like some specific songs.

  • Micheal Learns to Rock- Thats my first love, ever since I knew what english music wasSo many songs that I love from this band. Right combination of slow and pop. "I am gonna love you to the end", "Somewhere'
  • Bryan Adams- There was a time when I used to listen to "Cloud # 9" "Summer of 69" "best of me" on the loop!
  • Savage Garden:- I think their "Affirmation"song has one of the most realistic lyrics, "I knew I loved you" has a subtle picturization
  • Shaan:- Too many to list. But totally romantic songs such as "Woh pehli baar jab hum mile" "Gumsum ho kyun" then "Tanha dil and Bhool Ja"
  • Kishore Kumar :- Most versatile singer, anything that he sings touches that nerve somewhere. Happy songs "Yeh shaam mastani" "Mere sapnon ki rani" or sad songs such as "Kahan tak yeh mann ko andhere chalenge" 'Aane wala pal" or romantic tunes such as "Neele neele ambar par" "Pal pal dil ke paas'. He is just different!
  • Sonu Nigam:- Apart from his good looks, he has a great voice! talented and full of life. First time, I saw him performing on the show of "Sa re ga ma" I think he is just cool. Few of his songs that I really like "Mujhe raat din-from the movie Sangharsh, "Meree Kahani", "Tu jahan" "Kal ho na ho"
  • Shreya Ghoshal:- i think her voice has freshness at the time when female singers only meant Lata mangeshkar and Asha Bhosle. Her voice is a welcome change! Really like few of her songs "Jadoo hai nasha hai", "Piyu Bole", "Suna suna (a rare song) from the movie Krishna Cottage, "Naam Ada likhna" (Courtesy:Sayesha for reminding me)
  • Jagjit Singh: Again too many songs to list. Totally like this song from Jogger's Park "Badi naazuk", "Shaam se ankhon mein", 'Apni marzi se kahan apne safar ke hum hain"

7 people I'm tagging ..

Hmm! Not sure who..Rajit and Apy are two new bloggers. Would like to know some about them.

Thursday, March 16, 2006

Snooze n ring!

Last night, I couldn't sleep.
Its different when you actually dont want to sleep or cannot sleep as opposed to "couldn't
sleep.
Its even difficult for someone, who the moment hits the sack departs to dreamland! I fall asleep almost instantaneously.
So I was actually getting frustrated.
I logged on the messenger. Did not find anyone to talk to. In fact the moment I switched on my computer I felt the urge of going back to my bed.
Kept turning and it was almost 3:00 AM.
I have three alarms set on my cell phone.
One that goes on at 6:45 AM, one at 7:00 AM and the other one at 7:15 AM which I snooze and finally wake up at 7:30.
I keep my cell phone towards my right hand side and I am used to having it over there!
Last night, I happened to keep the cell phone on the floor and I failed to listen to a SINGLE alarm. I did not hear a single ring and which resulted in my waking up at 9:15 AM.
Even then, I only got up listening to my sister's call.
Ironically, the ring tone of my alarm and that of a phone call are the SAME.
Even then, I have yet to figure out, what makes me lift the phone even when I am in Stage 3 and State 4 sleep (which is considered to be the deepest stage of sleep cycle for a human being) and completely ignore the alarm. How does my mind differentiate between a ringing phone and an alarm!
Maybe coz I changed the location of the phone and maybe we are so used to associating a thing to the place where it belongs!!

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Medley of colors

HOLI-The Festival of colors!!!
Just another festival that brings together people from different cultures together!
This festival has always bought sweet memories associated with Kalyan (the place where I live). We used to have holi celebrations in our society.
The house smelled off sweets such as Puran-polis and naral polis (Rotis made out of cocunut).
Every year my cousins used to come at our place to celebrate this festival.
At that time, I hated playing with colors but loved playing with water filled baloons.
On one such occassion, I had recovered from chicken-pox, so doctor had advised me not to play.
Much against mom's wishes, I coaxed her into letting me play with water only.
Mumbai guys were notorious in that way! I shuddered looking at them play with oil-paints and mud water. Yuck!!!!
All of us (in sixth or seventh grade) used to lock ourselves on the terrace so that no 'bad-guys" would be able to come and color us. Meanwhile, we enjoyed throwing baloons at them!!
We were mean sometimes!
I used to jump with joy if the water filled baloon hit someone on the face or on the back. It was equally annoying to see someone throw baloons at old people and little kids.
We took care to hit baloons only on college boys or men :)))
Things changed once I came to US. I thought, there would be no festivals. Forget colors.
Nothing is going to be the same anymore.
But, I was wrong!
We played holi just the way it should be played.
Last saturday, we had a Holi bash here.
Pics have been edited for privacy issues:))
There were
COLORS AND THERE WERE INDIANS:

AND THEN THERE WERE AMERICANS TOO: (Dont we all look the same now)


THERE WAS DANCE TOO.

It was amazing to see the amroos dance to "Kajra re". Thats why they say, music knows no language.





AND THEN THERE WAS FOOD: Although, I dont think I can ever make Puran polis..the way I have always eaten..I made this dessert that goes by the name of Shahi-tukde. Don't know how it tasted, coz it was over even before I got to it!





And then there was chaat and eating the food together while sitting on the grass!

No wonder, barbeques are more popular than banquet dinners!

There is some kind of innate pleasure in sitting together and eating in this manner.

For the first time, I saw some amroos eating with their fingers (except for when they eat burgers and burritos) . None asked for fork, knifes and paper towels.

Its nice to see people adapting to each other's culture and just being a part of them!

One guy even asked me "I dont know how to apply this color. DO you apply it to the cheek or do you apply it to the hair"?? "I like green color. Please apply some green color on me".

One guy even said 'Are you guys always happy and enjoying life like this"

I obviously had no answer to that. And I wish it was always that way. But, I thought it was nice to project your culture in this manner to someone who was not totally aware of how things function in your country!







Lastly, I think festivals are just a medium to bring together people when they are busy doing things of their own. Maybe sometimes, we do things coz we have always been doing it that way. Festivals might not always mean the same for different people. But, neverthless, festivals make us realize that we belong!!!

Colors are always the same...even if the soil is different!

********HAPPY HOLI GUYS*******


Wednesday, March 08, 2006

A Journey with Mr. Gazer

And Virdi this one is for you.....

There's just this little thing that happened with me almost 4 years back and which I comfortably forgot until one day me and Virdi talked about it.
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You would know if you have watched this movie "Baaton Baaton Mein'.
There's a scene in that movie , where Amol Palekar sees Tina Munim for the first time in a local train. They are fellow passengers in a 9:10 AM local train.

They continue meeting each other in the train, he starts painting her picture (in form of a cartoon). In the beginning its just the eye flirting..and aankhon hi aankhon mein ishara..until one of them musters the courage and goes approaches the girl! From there the story kicks on!!
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OK! the bottom line is..people who travel in public transport have a very interesting life!

They always meet the same people if they are loyal to one train or bus.

When I was pursuing my M.Pharm, me and my best friend travelled in the same 6:10 AM local from Kalyan to Kurla semi-fast train every single day.

One who has lived in Bombay can understand the importance of travelling via the same train every single day!

These train timings for a Mumbaiyya are like lifelines of every person!
People generally dont like missing out on their favourite train!
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The scene:
And..I hated missing out on that 6:10 AM local.
For the first time in my life, I got to travel in a first class compartment. The price that we paid for getting into a first class was good enough for standing comfortably for 45 minutes coz the ladies compartment was real tiny with a max seating capacity of 15-20 odd ladies!
So this ladies compartment had a small window through which a couple of guys and girls can exchange glances!
Rightly, this guys compartment was called as "video coach"
Now, I must confess, few men who travelled by this first class gents compartment were college goers and some very good looking office goers!!
There was this particular guy who caught my attention. The guy was one decent-looking office goer. From his looks he did look like a marathi (not that it mattered). Not very good looking but looked really well mannered. Ironed clothes and a nice briefcase in his hand.
Scene before arrival of the train:
He also boarded the train at Kalyan and was accompanied by a friend too.
Me and my friend. Him and his friend.
We had this strange "gazing session'going on for atleast 15 mins prior to the arrival of train.
The four of us always stood below this particular clock on platform # 3 near middle class ladies compartment.
Scene after getting inside the train:
Now, the train arrived and we used to find our way to get inside the train and secure a good seat. Kalyan being the starting point, we could manage and get a comfortable seat if not the window. And who wanted the window seat anyways;)
Here is the catch: Both Mr. Gazer and his friend stood at the "small window" that seperated them from the ladies compartment.
The men did have enough room to accomodate atleast 35 people. But these guys never bothered to sit!
All they did was to stand in that spot, talk to each other, read the morning newspaper and alight!
Meanwhile, me and my friend sat exactly opposite to them. Talked a lot. Studied some.
On the way:
So all the time while we travelled I would see that Mr. Gazer stealthily looked in our direction and the moment I looked, he would shy away! My friend never had the guts to look at any guy;)
He would get down at Mulund (A station, mid-way between Kalyan and Kurla).
Every day this scene continued for few months!!!!
After a while, when one day both of us were standing on the platform, we exchanged some glances. I would just think.."Why doesn't he come and talk"!! But well, when was the last time guys in my life actually got what was on my mind:P
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The problem:
Well, if it would have been now..I wouldnt have mind to go and talk to the guy on my own. But, I really was a shy girl once upon a time.
And the main problem was, me and my friend were never able to tell out of the two of us, whom he was interested in???
Let me admit, my friend is very pretty and charming..so well, I did not want to just assume things and build castles in the air.
This went on for 6 months during which the scene was the same!
On the station-in the train-mulund-kurla and back. On our way back home, we never bumped into each other ever!!
After a while, we just gave up the possibility of the guy approaching either of us and we thought he was probably married:D
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The scence after:
I quit my M.Pharm, as I got a PhD offer then.
The day I got my visa, I went to submit my resignation.
Unfortunately, I missed my 6:10 local.
Needless to say, I felt sad, coz I was flying to US after a short while and lots of things had to be taken care of. I knew we would never see each other later.
Back here:
I flew to US and time flew too.
She is the same friend, who wrote letters to me here.
In one of her letters she mentioned "After you were gone, HE approached me in the same train, asking me about you. Since he did not see you with me anymore, he wondered where you were. I told him, that you were no more a Kalyankar..but have flown to US"
That was all. Finally, I was convinced that he indeed was looking at me. It was not a figment of my imagination. But, he approached me a little too late.
Wish things sometimes happened when you anticipate them to.
No wonder, the letter from my friend lit me up but the light slowly diffused and could not reach the place where it first ignited:(
Nevertheless, it was a memorable train journey ever. Even now, Kalyan platform # 3 brings back fond memories. I know, I will never ever take that 6:10 train.
Sometimes,'Ankhon hi ankhon mein ishara ends up being a mere ishara"

Friday, March 03, 2006

Heave of sigh

Finally, everything has been taken care of..(for the time being)
So how has my three months gone by:-
  • On the flip side:-
Lots of negative energy. Few accomplishments and a lot of whining.
Plenty of deadlines and lot of unrecognized effort. You know, how one feels that the credit that he deserves is taken away from him??
At the end of it..I think its all happened for a reason.
  • On the kitchen front

Ms. ROS has lost one pound!!

Thanks to all the bahar ka frozen khana and Maggi that I have managed to gulp down my throat. Swear! have never eaten so much of frozen food during the entire time that I have lived here..I think now I cannot stand Maggi for atleast a couple of months!!! The same happened with my roomies in Shreveport..where Rajma and Chole were made genereously, such that I have never bought a single can of Rajma for almost 2 years now. This time around its "Pulav" I think I have enjoyed my days under the sun with pulao and am done with that!!!

Thanks to a wonderful friend, I am regaining my lost interest in cooking...Will churn up something new sometime soon.

  • Weekend Junket

Screwed up gym schedule. Screwed up social life. Life for me on the weekend has been to blast music and work in the lab..Like the voicemail someone left me few days back "What the hell are you doing in the lab on a saturday"..Hahahah if I think back..nothing really!!

On the sweeter side:

  • Realized that there are too many nice people who wished well for me. Who thought and prayed for me every single day. Especially Thanu! Can never thank her enough. Keep bugging her every single day!!!
  • My chatur chaar, Sudeep and wolf2181, Puneet, for always prepping me up in a way or other!!

Three of the people I know---

  • My cousin for one..delivered a baby boy today. Remember where I had started a poll deciding what name should they give him?? Finally, the boy has been named NEEL..Yeah! just the name I wanted to give my son!!!!! I thank them for not naming him Neal [damn the Neal and Nikki]
  • My building friend, Sheetal, whom I have known since I was born..[she is 2 years older than me] delivered a baby boy!
  • My childhood friend Ashi, delivered a baby girl as well.

Isnt it beautiful?News such as this..makes life so worthwhile! Its especially harder to imagine people whom you have grown up with to bear babies!

Sheetal has been one person who would say "babies are good as long as they play and smile. When they cry, you just wanna give them back to their moms"

Like in the case of my childhood friend..I emailed her hubby and said (edited version and fictional names) "It would be quite a delight to see the wonderful transformation of Ashi from a girl to a mom" To which he replies "You are mistaken...Ashi is still a kid and now I have to take care of two babies"

HAHAHAHAHA. I find such hubbies adorable! Who love a little bit of childishness in their wives!

  • For the next four days, life is going to be less stressful. So here I begin an effort to revamp myself again. Two days of lab-free days!!

As seen from above the good points outweigh the bad points! yeay..I am still good:-) My life ain't that bad:O

Wednesday, March 01, 2006

4 or is it more

I zabardasti made Thanu tag me with High-5.
The thing is, apart from loving tags, I think these days there is just one thought hovering in my mind and I find ir boring to blog about that every waking day of my life!
My work life stress, that is!
Today, my boss is away so letting myself go for a bit!

Neways, so here goes

4 Jobs that I have had :

  • I have always been a bekaar (jobless). Thats a fact! I have never worked in an industry.
  • If scholarships count then I have had three.
  • If being a Teaching Assistant counts
  • If being a Research Assistant counts

Here am done with 4..Lolz!!

Jobs that left me:

Please refer above:P

4 Movies I can recommend to anyone: Big fan of comedy movies and Amol Palekar. All these movies, I must have watched 25 plus times. There was a time, when I would play either of these movies before I left for exams. Sad, they dont make such movies anymore:(

  • Chupke-chupke [Love that scene where Dharmendra speaks in English]
  • Jaane bhi do yaaron [The Mahabharat scene rocks]
  • Golmaal [Utpal Dutt and Amol Palekar..lethal combo]
  • Padosan [Kishore Kumar. Amazing is the word. Love ek chatur naar]

4 Places I've lived or linger in my memory: Havent lived in many places, but--

  • Mumbai
  • Shreveport, Louisiana
  • The terrace above my best friends apartment in Kalyan [Have shared all the pages of my life's chapter just strolling over there on a moonlit night]

4 TV shows I will remember: Aah many. Will make a seperate post out of it. The days of now endangered DD. The days before Ekta Kapoor made all those prime hours painful. The days when hindi serials rocked.

  • Surabhi [Remember the classic Renuka Shahane smile? An awesome Indian travelogue]
  • Dekh Bhai Dekh [Loved it when Chachi said "Somu re..Tere munh mein keede tere munh mein dhool]
  • Sailaab [Yes! Big fan of Renuka Shahane's serials. Ever heard the title track sung by Jagjit Singh??]
  • Chaal navachi vachal wasti [A marathi serial that dealt with the life of a regular life of an individual who lived in chawls. The neighborhood bantering and the problems. Wonderful serial made by Sai Paranjpe]

4.Vacations I will always remember:

  • Miami [My first vacation in US]
  • Summer Vacations during school time. When we would set off to any place and not care of time constraints.
  • Kanyakumari [The most amazing place I have ever seen]
  • East-coast trip [NY, NJ and DC]

4 Foods I love:

  • Big fan of Mumbai food. Indian-chinese, ragda patties, pav bhaji and batata wada.
  • Dosa-sambar-chutney
  • Dishes that have paneer
  • Puran Poli [A Maharashtrian delicacy made out of jaggery and dals. Eat it with dollops of ghee. Amazing]

4.Places I'd rather be: People make the place. So all these places with...people with whom I wanna be with.

  • On streets of Mumbai [Marine drive or Band stand with my junta back home]
  • Venice [Holidaying with Thanu;)]
  • Singapore [Only if Id known Sayesha last Summer]
  • In my house [With my sister, chatting away to glory and drinking chai]

Tagging: Sayesha [I know she aint gonna do it. But, if I dont tag her she gets disappointed also:P]

Jeenu

Pradyot

Bhole